Work On Yourself Before Dating Again

Work On Yourself Before Dating Again

We all have been there when we are just getting out of a relationship and we are devastated and then it's time to get back out there. So how do we do that? It's cool whether you're getting a divorce, getting out of a relationship, or even a situationship it's not easy, but you can make it fun and tolerable, and it starts with your attitude towards dating again. If you expect the worst and that's all you focus on then it will be a bad experience for you. I firmly believe in the energy that you put out, you get back. That means if you put out negative energy then you will put out negative energy and if you put out positive energy you get positive energy back. In my experience, I have found that people are deathly afraid of going back out to date because they hate starting over and going through all the motions, but think of it as the fun part. Oh by the way, dating is dating multiple people until you narrow it down to who you want to date exclusively (please don't rush the process) (Psst.......Don't feel guilty). Just be classy with it. These are some things that should be evaluated before you go out and start dating again.......

1. Attitude-please approach people with respect. Vulgarity (that's just one negative trait you will find when your in the dating pool) is so unattractive unless that's what you in to. People have perversions that you wouldnt believe-We will talk down the road about perversions in Sex Talk. 

2.  Communication

3.  Outward Appearance

4.  Weight Loss. BBWs and BBMs are in, but if your insecure about it then make the effort to lose it.

5.  Come into dating with no baggage or at least have good control it.

6.  Standards, Morals, and Manners-there will be post about this later.

7.  Hygiene and STDS-post later

8.  List Your likes and dislikes and dealbreakers and then see if you can return the favor.-post later

9.  Mental health-there will definitely be a post about this later. LOL